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30-35,
*itadel_guy
writes:Dear Cupid,I left Hawaii in 6th grade and I seem to leave "the other half of me" back. For 8 yrs now, I've been thinking of the same girl that I liked when I was in 6th grade. Im in college now, (sophmore) and I still think of her. We talk now and then. She means the world and more to me, and obviously a girl that beautiful can't stay single. She dates this relentless arrogant and stupid guy with no priorities in life. Im well on to become an Air Force pilot, and hopefully fly to space in my distant future. She has been my motivator through all the crap I've put up through my entire life since I met her in 3rd grade. I cant seem to find any girl like her. I dont want to grow old and single my whole life. Well, I think of her ALL the time. She's killing me softly and she doesnt know it. What makes things worse is that I live half way around the world now, and I'm afraid (i kinda know) that she doesnt think of me. Im your typical military yut guy. Hard feelings and I seldom show emotion. But this is the only thing thats keeping me from being happy. I have goals and aspirations to be big in the military (as "she" is my motivator)...and I dont understand why she is always on my mind. Please help. Atleast give me some understanding. I dont want to ask her as I fear that she will think im "weird" or "why is this ugly guy thinkin of me?" you know, those feelings hold me back from telling her everything I feel about her. SN: there are ALOT of young ladies that really like me. But I just want her...understand?
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reader, Citadel_guy +, writes (16 July 2010):
Citadel_guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks...but I still live over 5000 miles from her. I still need to complete school and I won't be going back to Hawaii anytime soon. I dont want to mess things up, because I know that there is no other lady for me. I wonder what I could provide for her 5000 miles away when I'm in the climax of my college career. she really means everything to me, but i cant afford to mess up....should I still take charge???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): No brainer. I can tell you from experience bro.. do what it takes!! If you think she even likes you a bit go for it. I was told buy my girl 20 years ago she didnt love me and stupidly I believed her..:(
Regret is the most pain you will ever feel.
Rejection is a mear flesh wound.
It may take some effort but YOU NEED to find out ..
Theres only one way.
"Charge".
However if she rejects you , respect her and remember
thats her choice and you will always know you tried.. Adds comfort over time.Anyway she might come back in time..:)
best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): Just go on and tell her your feelings.Open up your heart.If its meant to be its meant to be.
What if she is with him only because she thinks you are unavailable to her.We all love happy endings.Please go on and tell her.
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