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If he never felt that way... what difference does it make when I tell him?

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Question - (15 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Should i feel bad for this? I recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns out he didnt and he said he never had. It hasnt affected our friendship and hes said hes so glad ive told him but something has confused me.

He told a mate of ours that i couldnt of picked a worse time to tell him as hes just got a gf but in all honestly what difference does it make when i tell him if he never had feelings for me?

i would have got the same answer either way..

I wasnt aware he'd started seeing someone at the time and even so if hes never felt that way i would of got the same answer off him anyway. Why does my timing bother him?

I feel quite bad now i know he said this and its bugging me, i dont know his gf or anything so theres no way she;d find out so i dont know why this was a issue for him. Any advice?

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A female reader, loraemoon United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2010):

loraemoon agony auntby saying it couldnt of come at a worst time because hes got a girlfriend would automatically tell me he would of acted apon your feelings if he hadnt, but on the other hand by going out with a friend could ruin a very good friendship,

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