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writes:On facebook, i block stuff off so I couldn't see updates about my ex. For the time being, it hurts too much to see him moving on with his life. I recently created an event of me going and clubbing and partying with friends, and i guess he saw it, and i found out he has blocked from seeing my updates on facebook too. He said one day he wants to be friends, but does him blocking seeing my udpates means that he's hurt too? Or does it mean he's just sick of seeing my updates? He broke up with me and moved on seemingly fine after, so I think it's acceptable and understandabl for me to block his updates. But why would he block mine? I feel even more hurt now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): I think it hurts to see him move on, because you want SO bad, to be his one and only. SO bad, you can taste it. And yeah, he possibly did block you, because he's trying to push you back/away. He's trying to get over you, as well. My favorite teacher, in high school, I looked up to him, so much, once told me.. 'He could be acting like an asshole, to push you away. and to help himself get over the hurt. It's like his own personal form of 'coping'." I now use that advice, when I'm giving advice to others. It know it hurts, trust me. I'm still not completely over my last ex boyfriend/fiance, and it's been almost 5 years. Life hurts, not gonna lie, but I'm not going to make getting over a past ex/flame/love, easy; Because it definitely IS not. But keep going sweetie, I have faith in you! 3
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 It's Facebook. Get over it. Delete him so you can't see what he does on the Internet.
If you want to get over him, do so. Don't dwell on what he does or why.
Ex's rarely makes good friends. Set him free. Live life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 July 2010):
Because he is also moving on with his life. You made a decision to block your ex, and that's it. Realistically, it's the right decision. I know you're hurt, but you can't sit there worrying about what he's up to when you decided to move on, and you can't spend time being upset when he makes the decision to move on fully as well. He blocked you because he has now made the decision to also move on with his life. You need to now let this guy go, permanently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): Um, he's an ex. Nothing to do with you now. You're an ex, so why shouldn't he block you just as you blocked him? I don't understand the problem!
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