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writes:3 Year's ago, I met an amazing girl, and after what...a month, we were basicly in love, and through the first year we were on and off, it had to be secret because she didnt want people to know she was gay. Eventully, she finally came out with it, so at this time i thought, why not make it offical and ask her to be my girlfriend, so she accepted :) But then a few days later told me, she had cheated on me, and she was sorry, well after nearly a year and a half of love actually felt like it had just burnt down, i was destroyed. After a while i broke up with her and said it hurt too much. But now were basically a couple, but without the names, and she said she would never get back with me? So im quite confused, that she wants to carry on like this? I mean the longer it goe's on the more were both going to hurt? Should I end it? Or make it last? And also, i get worried when she goe's out that i cant trust her, but then again, do i even have the right to hold it over her, if were not properly together? :( I need some advice its been years now, i'm only seventeen but its a big deal to me. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): you poor thing its totally not your fault. She has got you into a situation where you have no leg to stand on if she go's off and cheats on you. This was planned, in my opinion you are being used. Tell her to either be with you or choose to be without you
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