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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi can anyone help?I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded but then I realised I kinda enjoyed it. I've never looked at a guy before then - but his body was shaved smooth (including down below) and he was in really good shape but in a way I hadn't noticed beforeI'd never seen that before and I found myself entranced and getting aroused to the point of awkwardness, if you get my meaning.He must have noticed that I couldn't take my eyes off (the more you try the more obvious it becomes I guess)his body and he didn't seem to mind - it almost looked like he was enjoying it.Now I'm at home I can't stop thinking about him, his smooth sexy body and what it would be like to feel him close against me - he was so hot!!!I've completely lost all interest in girls now. I feel confused and I'm wondering whether I'm in fact gay or at least bi-sexual?Should I act on these feelings? I think he wanted something but feel unsure.How should I appraoch him to find out if he is gay or bi - I'm just longing to touch his smooth body? Reply to this Question
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reader, jp21 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 are you a top or a bottom?
tops go into the guy. and bottoms recieve the package.
well if he has done it before and is a bottom then it wouldnt hurt him as much, it could hurt the firt few times for a bottom, especially if your tite down there. you could get a dildo atually and some lube and that could help a little bit, umm, if you haven't already done it yet. my first time was ok bec.. i did experiemented with dildos and he was about 8 inches, so i mean that would have hurt a lot if i didn't experiement first. and lube will really help too if you do have sex.
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reader, jp21 +, writes (21 July 2010):
idk you've never have felt these feelings before that point?
have you liked girls up to that point?
then i would say bi. A person that likes both is bi.
but i mean some guys have slept with a guy but found out it wasn't for them, same with sleeping with a girl.
umm, i probably would act on it personally.
just ask him if he wants to hang out some time with you at his place, or your's.
he was close to you because he liked your body too.
he wants to have sex with you obviously. so i mean if
you wanted you could just jump into it and have sex with him.
safe is always best if you do have sex with him you should be ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): When you see him again, why don't you just start a general conversation (working out, sports, weather, etc.). If he seems interested in talking, why don't you ask him to go get coffee or something? Basically, if there is a mutual attraction there, the other person will be willing to pursue you, too. Just open the door for it to happen. Good luck!!!
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