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writes:I need help :(Recently, my boyfriend finished with me.. We've been with each other for 14 month. I thought i would be able to get my head around it all and move on, but i cant. I love him and i think it will be hard trying to move on, after everything we've been through.. please could you help me and give advice on what to do :( much appreciated..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Yeah I know how you feel, you wont get over it for a while; your minds always gunna be on him but best thing to do is talk on facebook for a chat but no further, if you remain friends you will be happy his still in your life, just for now, be sad and cry but by next week get back on your feet and try feel better, just hang out with mates and have fun checking out other guys ;) inbox if you need comfortx
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reader, andea  +, writes (16 July 2010):
You may not like the fact he has moved on but if he was not into to you, you are better off without him. Women are really in the drivers seat in most relationships. Guys want a pretty girl on his arm and sex. Girls want emotional bonds and commitment. Obviously something did not mesh and it does not matter why. Believe me when I say there are lots of guys out there who would love to be with you - all you have to do is to accept the fact that you are ready to move on and put yourself out there.There is nothing wrong with you, Most guys are bashful -believe it or not - and you might have to make the first move when you find someone you are interested in. Have fun and don't change yourself.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Ok, first off, dont worry! You will be crying yourself to sleep and crying where-ever you are alone, but in a few weeks that will stop. and that is when your getting over him starts.Firstly, break off ALL contact with him, as talkin when yo are not over him prolongs the healing process. Spend your time with your friends, but make sure not to burden them with your feelings atm for your ex, they dont know how it feels inless someone you know does, going on about it is very off putting for people. If you act as happy as possible, then you yourself start to believe it.If you focus on these two, then in a few months you will be over him, or at least see the previous faults in the relationship which you never saw before and see how bad it was for you and how much free-er and happier you are now your single. You are youngish, these next few years are ideal just for having fun and messing about with your friends and guys. This is the goal. Follow the 2 things i said and you will be fine.If you wanna talk to someone, inbox me :)
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