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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: So I recently went to a small party with some friends and met a girl that I liked. As the party died down and everyone went to bed I found myself in the same bed as this girl, not a big deal because nothing was happening and we just went to sleep. A while later I woke up and found that she was sleeping with her head on my chest and we were holding hands. I obviously had no objections so I just went back to sleep. The next time I woke up she had angled her body away from mine but still had her head on me. I didn't think anything of it, but I did get up to go to the bathroom. When I returned, she had placed 2-3 blankets down on the bed and was sleeping on top of them with another blanket on top of her, leaving me with our original blanket. I thought maybe she had not wanted to cuddle with me and that I might have instigated it while sleeping. (I was drunk, so was she) So I went back to sleep and woke up in the morning to find her gone. Realizing I was alone, I shifted toward the middle of the bed only to find a large wet spot that I could only assume was pee. When I got up she didn't really say anything and I left a while later. So my question is: Do you think she is interested in me but embarrassed about peeing the bed (she knows I know, I jokingly asked her if she peed, and she laughed it off and said no) or was she just drunk, has no interest in me and the peeing was just a coincidence?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 July 2010):
Maybe. When people are drunk they will often do things they aren't proud of though. A night of drunken cuddling hardly means she's interested, unless there have been other signals. For all you know she was cuddling Brad Pitt (catch my drift). If you like her, it wouldn't be a bad idea to ask her out. Go on a real date. See how she reacts to a good night kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): WOW i dont know wat to say... Are you sure you didnt pee?? lol just kiddin. anyways she probably woke up in the morning, found a wet spot, was embarassed and left. I wouldnt confront her about it anymore because she might not want to date you if you talk about it...... Also if she was really drunk maybe she woke up and didnt know she was wiht you and left... Unless she admitted that she selt with you.. Good Luck!!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 July 2010):
Impossible to say. She was probably grossed out by the pee... But if she was really drunk too she might not think much of it. We can't know as we are not her.
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