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I cheated on him, now I feel I can't trust him, why??

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Question - (15 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

why do i feel so insecure and don't trust my husband after i cheated on him and he waited for me and took me back

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

You cheated on your hb and now you can't trust him : you are funny! You can't trust him bec he took your cheating ass back?funny and sick!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

You believe the relationship has become tentative. It depends totally on him. Should he withdraw from the relationship you are all alone. You have forsaken all the power you had in the relationship by cheating on your husband and now you are without support psychologically. Self-sabotage. You "know" your relationship to your husband will NOT last. You have set it asunder.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (15 July 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntYou've cheated and now your brain can't process the possibility that he loves you despite that.

'You can't trust him' indeed!

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (15 July 2010):

I think why it is? because you think because you cheated he will! for one and two is because you know it didn't bother you so why will it bother him to do it so it's in the back of your mind!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

Could it be possible you feel insecure because you, yourself were capable of cheating on him and realize that he's just as capable of cheating on you?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

You know why you feel insecure?

You are the one who violated the trust, and you secretly want him to "get even" with you so that you are no longer at a disadvantage in the relationship.

However, you are leaping steps ahead in this to be distrustful of him.

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