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*milia_shayner
writes:So, ive written a little before. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 yr and 4 months. I just am not sexually attracted to him like i used to be. i love him, but i just feel like i can do better. is it normal to feel like ure settling? i dont trust him much, but i love the fact that we can sit around and do nothing and be content. i dont have to pretend to be something im not and im truly my natural self. is this a good thing despite the fact that there is no trust.? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 July 2010):
I think at your age, there is little chance that you're going to find the 'one'. I'm not saying it can't happen, but I'm saying that it's unlikely. Your case is just like this. You like the guy, but he's just not the 'one'. At all. He's just a friend now, nothing more. Without trust and without sexual attraction, there is no way that this can work out. Be brave, let him go and find someone else.
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reader, aintnoangel  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 you're young, it's natural to think that there is more out there for you. but, on the other hand, if you're not attracted to him and don't trust him, forcing it is just going to end up ugly... maybe you 2 were just meant to be friends ?
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