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*lm2007
writes:My husband and I will have been married for a year in about a week. We had a son before our marriage, and all throughout my pregnancy he never had an issue with wanting to have sex with me. About a month ago we found out I am pregnant again. Since then we have only had sex twice. He is 25 and I'm 20. We usually have sex two or three times plus a week. I just don't understand why. Also, since we've been married, he basically never kisses me. He never holds Me, he doesn't hold my hand, nothing. Sometimes when I try to initiate physical contact he pushes me away and gets mad. I need physical contact. I also found out that he's been asking a girl he's known for a Long time if he can come over before he goes to work, or if he gets off work early if he can stop by. He's known her for a long time, and insists their friends, even sometimes cousins, but I just don't know. He doesn't say anything to me about these "plans" and he would always expect me to notify him if I go anywhere, even if he's at work. I just don't feel like he loves me anymore, and I think the only reason he is with me is to make sure he can still see his kids daily. He says its not, and that he loves me, but I just don't believe him anymore.
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reader, mlm2007 +, writes (8 February 2010):
mlm2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe girl recently got out of a bad relationship shortly before or after her son was born, the baby is her ex's
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reader, mlm2007 +, writes (8 February 2010):
mlm2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe doesn't know I know. He left his myspace logged in on his phone and I read his messages to her. There were no implications in the messages other than him asking her if he could come to her house. She has a six month old and a new week old boyfriend
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