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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy all of my life, he's a friend of the family. Three years ago I realised I had a crush on him and I've been in love with him ever since. We're kind of friends and he's always nice to me, but the thing is he's four years older than me; he's eighteen and I'm fourteen. I love him so much, I know in my heart that it's not "just a crush", he's always on my mind. I've looked up successful relationships and some couples have an age difference of up to thirty-six years (that's the biggest I've come across anyway) but that doesn't put my mind at rest...Sometimes when we're together I catch him staring at me and he sometimes goes out of his way to talk to me...but do I really have a chance with him?? :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): i think u have a chance, like im 14 and me and my best friend dated, hes almost 18. but just because there is an age difference doesnt mean it cant work. ive known this guy for almost a good three years, even though we still dont date we plan on strting back again when we can see each other because of the long distance.
he still tells me he lovees me and i talk to his sis all the time, and according to her he still talks about as if i am his gf, and he hasnt dated anyone sence
me and him make sence. we both love each other.
and even tho u had to tell him that u liked him, well i had to do that too. and i also had to make the next move
just be like hey, u wanna chill wit friends sometime, or invite him to a party so its not like a solo date its hang out, and that way u can find out if the feelings are mutal.
and if they are
GO 4 IT!! :)
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reader, ritaeffigy  +, writes (7 February 2010):
Unfortunately, the two of you acting on your feelings could lead to really disastrous consequences for your boy. Statutory rape is a serious crime.
I think it would be selfish of you to pursue this relationship, and dangerous for him. If you love him, do you want to put his future at risk? If he dated you, he could become a registered sex offender.
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