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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: first girl i loved was when i was 17 yrs old.. and i am 22 now.. back then i did not date her but we were very close friends. I wanted for us to be together but she did not want that because her best friend really liked me. so that didn't happen and it's been 5 or so years and i have had several girlfriends already but there are just times whenever i am alone that i think of her...? i do miss the times we hung out together but why is it only her that i think of? i really don't think she is really the person i can be with for the rest of my life as we are both completely the opposite. is this an un-finished busness that will haunt me for the rest of my life? i really want to forget about her as i know we cannot be together. how can i forget about her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): hey there,i just want to let u know tht a similar situation has happened in my life.a guy who i would say was my best guy friend started to like me but my friend had this major crush on him and after a year when he finally took the courage to tell me i turned him down,after a few months he started dating but whenever we meet prolly at a mall he would still look at me with the puppy face look,inspite of his gf next to him..
well i think u shld totally forget abt this girl..just start a new chapter.this girl has missed out on u and its her loss.give all ur love to the new girl in ur life,focus on that and not on the past
best of luck
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