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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:We've married for 14 years and no child. Recently I discovered my husband act differently. He started to pay attention on his appearance and he will go jogging with this female co-worker 3 times a week at his work place till 2330 hr. I've requested to join them for jogging but he will get angry and scolded me for not trusting him. But i really don't understand why can't i join them for jogging. One day by trying his new iphone, I've discovered that they've sms each other (not relating to work) in the middle of the night (1am to 3am). I've confonted him and he is very angry and said that if i don't trust him he will divorce me. He has mentioned 2 times divorce to me within 2 weeks. After that incident, he will change his iphone password regulary. Till today he still go jogging and on line chat with this co-worker. I don't know what to do now as I really feel insecure. Shall i going to trust him or divorce him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): Plse do not let him bully you. Seems like he is chearing. Why working so late, he changed his password, secretive, hiding things from you. This man is ruling you by instiling fear. He is cheating but is blmeshifting. Plse weight your optionsm. Have you considered being upfront with this other woman. Tll her to stay away from your hb. Yes they may deny it but who cares. Your hb will be angry but what do you have to lose. Trust him? Not as far as you can throw him.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 You are trusting him, but he is not, When you propose to join them. Now be straight by saying, that anger is not proper response. Ask him, what he want from life and from you?
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