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writes:How do YOU define the term "virgin"? A person who hasn't had ANY sort of sexual experience at all? Someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse but has had oral, anal? For girls, do you consider them a virgin if their hymen or "cherry" was popped from masturbation or fingering but NOT from a penis? I'm just curious as to what people think. :) Personally I think a virgin is someone who hasn't had any sort of sexual experience. You're a "half-virgin" if you've done any other sexual play besides actual intercourse. Haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): male reader anonim's definitions are right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): had vaginal or anal intercourse = definitely not a virgin
oral sex = mostly still virgin
broken hymen without penis intercourse = still a virgin
got raped = still a virgin
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (6 February 2010):
You're absolutely right with your definition. But I think most people define a virgin as someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse with another person. But I know a Muslim girl who has her hymen intact for religious reasons and is saving it for marriage but she regularly has anal sex and she insists she is a virgin. So it is kind of weird to define!!
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reader, veronika  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 I feel a virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse. So if someone's given oral but they haven't had actual sex, then in my opinion they're still a virgin.
The hymen doesn't have anything to do with virginity, contrary to what most people believe. Mainly because the hymen can break in numerous non-sexual ways before one has sex.
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