A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:im a lesbian seeking for advice on sex with my gf. i was a virgin when i met her and on one occasion she took away my virginty. it was not too painful when she thrusted her finger in for the first time.but it felt uncomfortable when the finger hits the cervix. the 2nd time we had sex, we had a long foreplay which was amazing. i was obviously wet enough for her but when she pushed in her finger, i lost the pleasure almost immediately. when she slides and goes fast i feel little pleasure but it felt sore most of the time. the 3rd and 4th time was better..but the orgasms only last me for less than 30 secs. and that was when she pushed in the 2nd finger.when i do her, she gets aroused quickly so foreplaying can be short. she ever said that sometimes when i slide my finger right in, she can almost faint in pleasure right away. but why am i not feeling it that way when her foreplaying skill is superb??i really love her.. but i dont want to end up faking orgasms for the rest of my life.could it be that my hymen is not broken yet? it did bleed a little the 3rd time she did me.
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reader, dazzleberry  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 hiya there, there is not always a neccesity for penetration. The best and most intense way to acheive and orgasm is through clitoral stimulation - play about yourself and then you can lead her hand to you climaxing. for a penetrative climax, hitting the cervix is a common sign that she has gone to deep, the sexual nerve (the G spot) is approx 2 inches in and only needs gentle stimulation to acheive climax.
The whole "in out, in out" suggestion comes from hetrosexual sex to relieve the man, for 2 women taking it slow and gentle at first is the best way to acheieve a orgasm. For most women, an orgasm generally last 10 to 20 seconds.
have fun and enjoy exploring each other
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