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writes:I've been with my girlfriend almost 14 months, she attracts a massive amount of attention from other males, a wee while ago she left herself logged into a social networking site, and when i realised she was still logged in i took a little look in her emails and there were emails from a guy people said she'd slept with in college however she denys these rumours, the emails that this guy had sent her were of a graphic sexual nature, she showed no interest in her replies to him, but this was going on during our relationship and she kept it from me, can i trust her? Reply to this Question
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reader, themisses  +, writes (6 February 2010):
If she wanted to be with that guy she would. I agree that maybe he's just an old friend. Maybe he wants something more but she doesn't. Maybe she set you up. Maybe she wanted to see if you would read her emails. Stop snooping and make your relationship work.and don't question that poor girl again.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Why did she keep replying to him if she wasn't interested?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 February 2010):
She didnt' reply to these other guys. So you have no reason to distrust her.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 I say yeah of course you can still trust her and now you shouldn't have looked but curiosity gets the best of all of us. This may be an old friend of hers that even though he sends her messages like that she is too nice of a person to be mean and shut him out. You gf will always be faced with other guys coming on to her and there is nothing you can do about it except have faith in her loyalty to you. She probably didn't tell you because it was nothing and she didn't want to get you all worked up, there is no reason not to trust her.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 ahah but can your girfriend trust you? As soon as you noticed she had left her computer logged in there you were, snooping for whatever you could find.
You already have said her responses to the guy showed no interest in him, there you have you answer.
But, if she was to write in asking if she could trust you, I would say no, she cant!
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