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*eleren
writes:Okay so me and my girlfriend have been having problems things just don't seem to be how they use to be in our relationship like she use to tell me she loved me all the time and well there use to be passion in our relationship now it just seems like we are friends. Well today she said maybe its best if we take a break. She still loves me and is in love with me but its best we take a break. i said alright if thats reall what you want your the love of my life and well if you want to go i won't stop you. I the proceeded to tell her that i would leave and bye leave i mean out of her life. So i wasn't smothering her. i told her im still there if she wants me and or needs me but i won't bother her. She pouted and told me okay. then we went in our opposite directionsso two questions1.Whats this break all about some one help me please.2.Did i make a good idea on the leaving her life? or should i take that back and talk to her just not as often? please people help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): Don't carry a torch for this girl unless you know she's really still carrying a torch for you. This relationship may just be over.
And also, don't just assume she's not messing with some other guy if she hasn't openly said she isn't. When a girl asks for a break that is very often the reason, because she has someone else in mind. She says "break" because that technically makes it allowable for her to mess with someone else without having to face that painful conversation with you.
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reader, ash.ton +, writes (7 February 2010):
well, this break could mean alot of things. take it from me. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. but we have been on and off HORRIBLY. her "break" could mean these things:
• she's getting bored of you and wants something new.
• there is another guy
• she feels like something is missing
and trust me, those are only three of MANY!
and about the whole you leaving her life thing..i've said that to him many of times, but we're still together. it's all in your hands. you can talk to her and see how she feels. or you could just let it go. i might not have been much help, i'm sorry if i haven't...but i hope i at least helped a little! :) :)
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