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writes:Hello,Please help I had a relationship with a man for 1 month and 2 weeks .He told me that he is looking to settle down with a woman and that iam what he is looking for. So he always tells me to send him e-mails or call him .One day we went out for tea he told me he was travelling for business for some weeks and that i should keep in touch with him so we did keep in touch .So he came back did not tell me that he was back but i found out on my own so i sent him an e-mail he answered me saying he is happy to hear from me and that i should enjoy my life. So i called him regarding this he did not answer. Therefore i sent him an e-mail asking him if he was serious about us and that i thought he was not honest and heartless. So he replied saying that he could not answer the phone due to bad network which is a lie cause when i called he switched off his phone.and that he is sorry if he hurt me. He said that he told me before he travelled that we should just be friends which never happened.Then he said i never meant to hurt you please reconsider you feeling on honesty, forgivenessPlease tell me what should i do if he contacts me again. Reply to this Question
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reader, bojolay +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Dear,I regret to inform you that a lot of men I talk to are willing to say anything to women in order to have a quick sexual relationship. I regret to inform you that many men have male friends who will assist them in order to decieve women into having quick sexual relationships. They call it "team work". Also be aware that people - including boyfriends - hear what they want to hear, remember what they want to remember, and think whatever is necessary in order that they feel good about themself. However, there are good people out there. The hard part is finding them and avoiding all the bad people.If what you've said is actually true, then I suggest you terminate the relationship with that man. If he calls you, I suggest that you inform him exactly what he did and inform him exactly how it makes you feel. Do not tell him what you think might have happened, only what you actually know that really happened - like exactly what he told you. Tell him how it made you feel, and that you do not want to be with him because what he did makes you feel bad. Then try to move on to a new friend. Next time you start a friendship try to be safe. Do not get involved sexually or emotionally for a long time. Give it time to grow into something nice. You might also want to consider associating yourself with a good group of people instead of single men.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): there is a book,,,"He's just not that into you" You maybe should read it ??
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (6 February 2010):
Isnt this the third post you have done about this guy? Why are you so consumed by him? If he is acting funny then just drop him and meet someone who is more interested. If a guy is keen on you he will make an effort. On the Internet you meet at least 9 awful ones for every 1 success so dont give up.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 February 2010):
This sounds like a guy who wasn't that into you to be honest. I think if he contacts you again, you would do better to tell him that you are moving on. From what you've said this sounds like something that will never move beyond casual.
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