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I am worried about hair in the nether regions

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Question - (6 February 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *nongirl writes:

Hi, I'm a 17 year old female who is suffering from hair on my butt, not my cheeks, it's inside of my cheeks around my hole. ( I apologize for graphis terms). I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and we haven't really gotten to the sexual area of our realationship, but we have been talking about it. I trim my pubic hair around my vagina, but lately I've been paying more attention to my butt. I haven't touched the hair there, because I'm unsure on what to do. I don't know if that's normal, and if it's okay to leave it or if I should do something about it. Waxing or shaving or something. Help me on what I should do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010):

Just throwing this out there cause of all the people advocating the shaving method... I seriously don't get how one is supposed to attempt to take a razor and shave one's own butt hole...

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A female reader, Lyra Anna Croatia +, writes (25 March 2010):

Lyra Anna agony auntI have a same situation and I find shaving very easy way to fix the problem. Don`t use epilator cause you can hurt yourself as well, believe me.

Good luck!

=)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010):

You should definitely attempt to shave it. If the hair is kinda long than maybe you should trim it down before you shave. Your man may be turned off if he notices you have a hairy butt hole... but it also depends on his preferences. He may not mind at all. If you use regular shaving gel and a razor you shouldn't have a problem at all. Just be careful not to cut yourself.

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A female reader, carebare Canada +, writes (7 February 2010):

It's pretty normal. Chances are that, unless you're doing anal, he's not going to see any hair in your butt-crack/hole but if it bothers you, I would recommend waxing. It lasts longer and is probably easier and safer than sticking a sharp object in there.

Cheers.

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A male reader, Buffalo Bill United States +, writes (6 February 2010):

getting your a-hole lasered like someone else here suggests is the closest thing to sheer insanity I've ever heard. Any guy who won't take you as you are should get his own butt lazered before he complains about you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

don't do anything. because alot of men like me like it hairy their. much more erotic believe me.also if you shave it it will only grow more intense.

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A female reader, eliz1958 United States +, writes (6 February 2010):

Hi,

You can shave it, which is the quickest way to go. It is somewhat of a pain though. I saved up $1000.00, gave up the prada and digital camera to get my arse and my pu$$y lazered. I did the Brazilian zap. I'd rather have a hairless "downthere" than anything in the world. Nothings worse than a hairy you know what...total turn off.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (6 February 2010):

LazyGuy agony auntNormal, while the media portrays women as hairless they aren't.

You can either wax or shave it (you probably need outside help and in the case of waxing no feelings. Oh your female, then that is sorted out all ready) or just accept that you are who you are... oh I keep forgetting, you are female.

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (6 February 2010):

veronika agony auntHair on any part of one's body is normal, so you shouldn't feel it's weird or odd that you have hair there.

If you really feel you must get rid of it, waxing or trimming is the best way to go, because shaving that area of your body could be tricky.

But don't feel you *have* to shave it - only do it if you truly want to.

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A male reader, Flyguymyeye United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2010):

I think its natural, but if it makes you uncomfortable then see your gp before doing anything!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

Ay i have that problem 2 lol. I shave it but yea i be thinking that my dude would find that nasty then i would think what if i leave hair like missing a spot so yea wax it.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (6 February 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI rekon shving it would be like walking around with sandpaper in your arse when it grew back spiky. I would suggest waxing, epilating, or a depilatory cream as better options.

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