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Would this mean she had sex with another man?

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Question - (6 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend went out partying and didnt come home till noon the next day That night we started having sex About 5 mins into it we stopped She was hiding her virgina when i asked to see it it was swole ang puffy than normal Did she have sex with a man that had a big penis?

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A female reader, Apark14 United States +, writes (7 February 2010):

This is a tough one. What did she say when you asked her why her vagina looked like that? A vagina can get a little swollen from sex and the man doesnt have to have a big penis for that to happen. That can happen if a girl was not wet enough, or if the sex was alittle rough. There could also be other reasons for what you explained she had. Maybe she could have an infection...maybe a yeast infection and that makes your vagina very itchy and by scrathing it, it could become red and swollen. Im sure since she was out all night and half the next day it is making you that much more concerned. You are going to have to talk to her and see what her answer is as to what is wrong withher vagina.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (7 February 2010):

janniepeg agony auntThe way you spell vagina is funny. It reminds me of Borat in the movie saying vagine. Vaginas get swolen and puffy when we are horny. Maybe the alcohol made her blood go down there. Her hiding her virginia makes her look guilty. Whether it's a big penis why are you asking us? If you let your girlfriend go to party without you, you could expect something like that happening. And don't be surprised that she blames it on drinking.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

I hate to say it but I think she may have. Talk to her about it. It may have been alcohol fuelled and a mistake. From this you will have to decide whether she is worth holding onto. Because it may take time to get over trust issues. When you ask her try to keep your emotions calm and ask her if she has anything she wants to tell you, to give her the chance to air it out first.

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