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writes:Here we are, I and my boyfriend had a phone sex which something I wasn't even heard about before i just read somewhere and realized it yeah I'm old fashioned so what, don't you think he should tell me that he want phone sex before started it with me? anyway, there is something kinda felt strange. while we were talking he told me that he need to touch himself, I hated that I got angry I'm frank so i told him immediately, stop doing that it's so disgusting, he just said that he was kidding not gonna do that, of course said that because I got mad. you might think that I'm the one to call strange but this I consider touching oneself as a bad thing. I feel bad that he didn't tell or explain just go on and did it. for I'm not gonna do that.it happened now and I'll stop it, I just wanna know if it's normal to say during the phone sex" I need to touch myself "
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): if you are incapable of touching yourself and consider it wrong or dirty you have some major issues.phone sex and all that other stuff really isn't the issue. There is some major problems, sexually repressed doesn't even begin to to touch the tip of this iceberg.....If you don't appreciate or even understand your own body, you will never understand another person's body. And,, if you don't know your own body, they will never ever be able to meet your needs/wants/desires/ or be able to please you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm just being myself, sex is after marriage my boyfriend seems alright with that
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reader, veronika  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Yes, it's normal to say something along the lines of "I want to touch myself" during phone sex - phone sex is all about fantasy and telling each other what you want to do sexually.
It sounds to me that you are a little sexually repressed. If you are fine with not wanting to touch yourself, that's your decision - but you shouldn't tell your boyfriend he "can't touch himself" just because *you* think it's bad.
Masturbation is actually quite normal. If you think it's bad, that's fine, but that doesn't mean everyone needs to think it's bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel so confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is I didn't know. I didn't do that touching thing but I guess he did I feel used he would better tell he knows I don't know these stuff now I don't feel comfortable at all he stopped it when noticed that I hated it ah
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 February 2010):
The idea of phone sex is that you DO touch yourself. Touching yourself isn't a bad thing. But clearly if you are uncomfortable with it, don't do it.
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