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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing a guy for 6 months. I love him so much more than I have EVER loved anyone, and I truly believe he feels the same way about me. I had a crush on him for 2 years before we started seeing each other, and he is THE BEST thing that has ever happened to me. He treats me like a princess, always offers to pay for things, holds doors open for me, and sticks up for me in front of his (and my) friends. When I'm with him, I feel like nothing can ever hurt me. I truly feel that if our relationship ended, I wouldn't be able to go on. I can't live without him. But, when I'm not with him (we don't see each other every day, we go to different colleges) I get an awful sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, and I feel really guilty about something, even though I don't know what it is. Sometimes, it terrifies me just how bad I feel, but then when I'm with him, it goes away immediately, I really don't know how to stop this awful feeling of guilt, does anyone know how to make it go away???
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 I think you're in the honeymoon stages of your romance where you just want to spend all your time with this guy, and when you're not with him, you want to be with him. I think as time goes on, you will become more accustomed to time away from each other. also, someday, if things go really well, you can go to university together and maybe live together. maybe it would also help if he and you sent each other little texts between classes, just to ease your mind. still, i think it's healthy for you at your age to stay friends with the people you love at your school, they can cheer you up, distract you, and support you when you are feeling down.
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