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female
age
51-59,
*HE WOLF
writes:I have met a most wonderful guy, only thing he lives 2hrs away from where I live, so I dont get to see as we would like.The first two week of our relationship, we email and text contantly. One weekend he got a email from his EX, which upset him and told me she was poison in his life.Then all of a sudden the text were down to one a day, no emails, I have confronted him twice now and he has got total upset when I said you just have to tell me if you dont want us to be together, he said he had been very busy at work, as he has to have put extra shifts in as they are short of staff and the long hours have made him exhausted. He tells me he loves me and still wants us to be together and he is so lucky to have met me, Im one in a million, in his words.Am I been unreasonable for doubting him or do you think it could be something else to do with the ex? Please help me as Im feeling down and confused due to it all. OH by the way, I am married to someone else, but this person I talk about said he would wait for me, no matter how long it might take before we are together properly.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 Well being that you are emotionally cheating on your husband at the very least, I suggest you end this farce at once.You certainly cant find love in your own relationship if you are looking for love outside of it.I mean, come on, lady!! You are married1 Don't you have any respect for your husband? Jesus, do you not see the irony in this? You are messing around on your husband and wondering if this other guy is lying to you?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): uuumm wow you are worried about him having some sort of contact with his ex when you are already married youself?Show some respect to your husband and atleast leave your marriage first before even worrying about getting in to another relationship.In regards to his lack of contact with you, this could be really from work or he might be have second thoughts about you and maybe even worries you will do the same to him as your doing to your husband.
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