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writes:I'm 18 in college and I maybe pregnant and if my college finds out I can be kicked out and if my mom and family find out I might not have anywhere to live and I'm so scared because part of me wants to keep it and the other part says no. I'm confused and scared what should I do? please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): I'd say think things through very carefully, one of my best friends got an abortion and she really felt it wouldn't affect her but now 6 yrs later she still talks about how much she regrets it. No matter what this is going to affect you for the rest of your life. I know it is scary. I got pregnant unexpectedly, I chose to keep the baby and I couldn't imagine my life without her! I was terrified of telling my parents and really didn't want to. They are very traditional. Of course when I told them it wasn't ideal but they help me and love my daughter unconditionally now. It will be hard if you choose to keep the baby but every problem is completly worth it! It will be hard if you choose not to as well. I really hope you find peace with your decision. There are also plenty of people who want to adopt. Don't forget that!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 October 2009):
Talk to someone you can trust. Your parenst may be your option. Or a friend, or a cousellor or a doctor. Anyone that will listen you and advise you. I know you're scared, but you need to do something now and you must talk to someone. I really would talk to you mum. Lots of luck.
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