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male
age
30-35,
*emo Boi
writes:How do I make her understand I really Love her??She's been with her bf for 4 years now. But she wants to break with him because he had broke her trust on him so many times and hurt her emotionally. Her bf would'nt allow her to break up with him but they had already broke up and patched back couple of times. She knows I love her and I have been waiting her for 19 months. She told me she has feeling towards me too but she don't know how deep is her feelings towards me and she's really confused. And she kept saying she don't trust guys nowadays because of what her bf did to her. He went on with another girl while he was with her. I have adivised her so many times that getting her heart broken many times by him is not a healthy practice. Now she's stuck, her bf would'nt allow her to leave him and she's scared to hurt his feelings too if she initiate to break up again but she really wanna leave him. I really care and love her alot! I cant take it while she is saying, "all guys are the same, cant be trusted. At first you might find love sweet, but as time flies, it becomes sour.." PLZ HELP ME! I DONT WANT HER RUIN HER LIFE STILL BEEN WITH HIM!
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 Ask her how she imagines herself with this man 10 years from now. Then tell her how you imagine yourself with her 10 years from now.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 You are becoming embroiled in a situation that needs to resolve itself before you can hope to have a good relationship with this young woman. She needs to leave her boyfriend and get over it before you two get romantically involved. At the moment you are being used as support; as a backup. You are getting into a triangle that won't have a happy ending.
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