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writes:I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with another guy but was going to end it because she wanted to date me. Now we are dating. What she didn't mention is that she had known the guy for a year, was in love with him, and stopped being his booty call because she realized that he wasn't ever going to love her, not to mention he's leaving town soon. None of this is really a problem except that he's her "best friend" and she keeps going to see him while I'm at work. I'm pretty sure she's there now as a matter of fact. I have jealousy issues to begin with, but I've been working on it. I called her after work and she told me she was watching a movie with "a friend" and she'd call me back, probably to tell me she isn't coming over. I really don't know what to do, I actually like her, which is new for me, other girls I would have just ended it by now. I can't figure out if I'm being paranoid or if I have a legitimate complaint. But knowing that she's hanging out with her "Best Friend" who she's in love with and was having sex with until about 2 weeks ago is killing me. I have no real reason to believe she wouldn't be honest with me, but it isn't hard for me to believe that she could just be playing me.
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reader, DESTINY 23 +, writes (22 October 2009):
 I would get another girl and you both will be even
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): You are right to be suspicious and you are not being paranoid. She is using you to make the other guy jealous. She hopes that by showing him she's moved on (with you),he will do a 180 and realize how much he loves her and beg her to stay with him. She is definitely playing you and I suggest you dump her ass immediately. It's only been two months, so it's not like you've invested a lot of time in this sham of a relationship. BTW, this guy will continue to dog her so she'll get what she has coming to her.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (22 October 2009):
 Dude...YOU ARE GETTING PLAYED!Don't let this toxic woman into your life...she is up to no good and for all you know wshe is telling this guy the same thing. who's to say that there arent others?Dude, I know the power of the pussy is hard to leave, but there are women who wont treat you like that. Grow pair and end it before she ends up giving you an STD!
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (22 October 2009):
Not sure how she is playing you exactly but she is playing you. You can stay on for what might be an interesting ride if you can manage to not get your heart wrapped around her or if you can't help it then you might have to just tell her to go on and keep hanging with him. Take your pick
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