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anonymous
writes:HelloI broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he has another girlfriend/date. He told me that he does not have any. I texted him "that we can try again.And if you are not interested then tell me". He did not contact me in three hours so I texted him that he could text me only a no if he is not interested. I also told him to remember that he before promised to tell me when he is not interested".Why does he not answer? Is he interested or not?I will see him at work tomorrow shall I ask him again? I know since before that he does not answer when he is not interested. But I made it easy for him this tim by telling him if you are not interested then only text a no without any explanations.What shall I do if he will not talk to me/text me?How to know if he is not interested if he is not telling me? Shall I guess by his actions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): I think that he's had enough wild ass acusations, and chooses not to be in a relationship with someone like that... learn from this, or repeat it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Perfect Uncle Phil, my thoughts exactly, I wonder if these two ever really talk or just text or grunt when they wanted to see each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): I presume that if you're texting him you have a phone? Maybe even a phone at home that's connected to the mains? I wonder if you are aware that these devices can actually be used for the purpose that they were first invented for, which is to actually speak to people.
Texting is so commonplace these days it's almost taken over the art of conversation, and if Charles Darwin was right, in about a half million years human beings will lose the ability to talk, just like bats lost the ability to see.
For heavens sake, talk to him. Get his name/number on the screen, press the little green button and put the device to one of your ears and hope that he knows how to answer it. By talking you can actually hear by the tone of someone's voice whether they're happy or sad, angry or delighted to hear from you. I'm sure you'll find it a wonderful experience in the end, and a new method of communication to be marvelled at.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): I think you've got your No. And I don't mean to sound harsh here, but you dumped him. He's not obligated to do anything to make it easier for you. And if you want to get back with him maybe you should act like it. Throw yourself on your sword and tell him that you made a miskate and you want him back. Don't say "that we can try again."And if he still won't respond and doesn't want anything to do with you then you'll just have to accept it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 October 2009):
To be fair, you did dump him without proof, so this may be a case of him being very hurt and trying to get over you. You could try talking to him, but I think it's over.
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