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writes:Hi just wondered if you could make any sense of this as im slightly confused. A friend of mine(a guy) is a very nice guy in general. I wouldnt call him shy but hes abit quiet at times. We've had afew ups and downs in the past, lifes been made difficult people have been saying things to stop us being friends etc, thing was back in them days i, and others thought he liked me. He used to show it alot. It kinda drifted but kept coming back it never left, it dyed down but never fully went away. Thankfully we no longer see them people everyday, well hes still very good friends with one of them and see's her quite alot however she was the main cause of the problems as she also liked him, and knew she could get one over on me.Not to long ago however a friend of his added me and strangly considering shes a really quiet girl asked me if i liked anyone(i sed no) and started going on about what a great guy this friend of mine is and things. The next thing i knew was she had told someone that she was trying to get us toegther. Which to me unless he said something to her she wouldnt just do that as she didnt know me well at all, its not something you just go and do like that. I have recently found out that it was this guy that first told her about me. She also said shes wondered if we were going out toegther for a while now and thinks we;d be a perfect couple. She kept saying its just i think you perfect together. i couldnt really say much so i just said aww thanks. But yet she reckons hes never told her that he liked me. However i do wonder about this because surely all that would not happen without something being said. But shes not the only one that thinks we would be perfect together :( i really do as well. e acts really weird though one minute hes like all talkative with me and normal the next he seems awkward with me. I cant really talk to him about it at the moment but i just need some advice. He knows i like him im just not to sure why hes behaving like this and what going on. Im just trying to see us as friends but the thing is and this is the funny thing. We only talk online if i start the conversations and we only meet up if i suggest it, yea dont get me wrong he always says he'll come and he does but its always me that does it never him. Tbh im treated abit differently but not in a good way because theres something he does to everyone else such as the meeting up thing and the texting people etc. Please give me your opinon before i approach anyone about this.
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reader, robinp93401  +, writes (22 October 2009):
OK, so your question was really hard to understand. So I'm going to just say it......I think he's using you. HE never initiates, YOU do. That says it all. I think you should find somebody that appreciates you and respects who you are and what you have to offer, which is a LOT!!!! :)
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