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Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!

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Question - (22 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *pringluv2 writes:

I live with my bf and we have a baby together.

I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great

Except that he works a lot and is always tired.

I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when

He is working all the time but I don't think that's the case. I was cleaning up and found a piece of a natural

rubber condom wrapper if we use rubbers they are latex but we

Don't usually use protection at all. Nd we don't have sex that often

We keep condoms in the top drawer and the wrapper was

In his dirt clothes on the floor. Should I think that it fell from

The drawer or wonder if he is cheating.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

By the way, I just turned 53 and I can call him a dirty old man if I want, too. I don't know any men my age who would sleep with a 21 year old unless he was in it just for the sex, and I don't know any 53 year old men who would sleep with a 21 year old in the first place.

But then I don't hang around Hollywood plastic surgeons or movie stars with huge bank accounts either...

I am suspicious for a lot of reasons.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

In his dirty clothes on the floor, not your brand? You dont use condoms and you don't have sex that often and he is always tired? What are you doing with a dirty old man like that? Sorry, but you are 21 and he is 53 and he is cheating on you? Something is wrong with this picture.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

Maybe he was playing with himself and didnt wanna make a mess

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A female reader, roxyrex United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2009):

roxyrex agony auntGo and ask him about the condom wrapper and seee what he says.Whatch him carefully and if you think hes cheating then talk about it and if things carry on,leave him !

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2009):

I'd be wondering about this. Think carefully about this relationship./

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A female reader, robinp93401 United States +, writes (22 October 2009):

Not enough evidence to convict. Maybe it was stuck to the bottom of his shoe when he walked in. However, I wouldn't let him off completely. I would definitely let him know, in passing & no questions or accusations, what you found and where. This lets him know that you're paying attention. Pay attention to his immediate reaction and future behavior. I think these will be helpful in letting you know if you should be concerned or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

i'd be wondering...

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