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writes: I plessure my self sometimes but I feel VERY VERY shameful after i'm done. What can I do?? I've tried to stop doing it but its hard not to since I havent had sex for a while. Any advice?? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): Bear in mind that in many states, the criminal penalties for masturbation are still quite severe. If detected by the police, you may be looking at a heavy fine and/or a stiff prison sentence, in addition to the public humiliation of having your name and face splashed all over the newspapers with lurid headlines like 'BEAST' and 'PERVERT'...
Actually, I didn't mean a world of that. Every adult on the planet has masturbated. Religious leaders like Pope Benedict XVI and the Ayatollah Ali Khamenei might claim otherwise, but I don't believe them for a minute. Mother Teresa probably did it. You are a perfectly normal member of the human race and have NOTHING to feel guilty about. Try to enjoy it and kick the shame into touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): It's all good and perfectly natural. Enjoy!
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (22 October 2009):
There's nothing wrong with masturbation. Lots of people do it and there's nothing to feel ashamed about. It's fun, it's relaxing and it's safe. Better to masturbate than sleep with some random person just to relieve sexual frustration...In the words of Woody Allen "Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love"!Honestly, don't worry.
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reader, Rose_red_09 +, writes (22 October 2009):
Agree with caringguy - it's a very natural and pleasurable thing to do - just enjoy and understand and appreciate that there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of :-)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 October 2009):
There's nothing to be ashamed of. Just enjoy yourself.
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