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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been good friends with a guy I met at work for over a year (I now work for another company). He's really out going and fun, but can be shy around women. We tell each other things we've never told anyone else and its great to have such a close friendship with him. Last week after we went out to eat he jumped into my car beside me (his car was parked next to mine) he was acting a bit strange, then he leaned over and kissed me. WOW, fireworks, it was great! He told me he'd speak to me soon, end of a great night.Well, three days later and we've not spoken since (unusual to go more than a day or two without talking). Do you think he's just embarrassed because of what happenened or is he totally regretting it? I don't feel right calling him and that makes me feel bad, as he is/was my friend. What do you Aunts advise please?
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reader, ricco  +, writes (22 October 2009):
 He's probably embarassed. U should give him another day or so to let him work up the courage to tell u how he feels.Then try and talk to him.
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reader, Beautyandbiscuits +, writes (22 October 2009):
 I think he is just embarassed as he doesnt yet know how you felt about the kiss.
i dont think he is regretting it as he made the move to go into your car to kiss you and he may have been just nervous!
at the end off the day the only way to know for certain is talk to him! communication is soo important and if u havent talked to him yet then start especially if you want a relationship out of it(which i know u do hehe)
all the best and keep smiling =)
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