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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay. im 14. and my friends always say im a lezo. like, i like guys. well, i always used to, and like, this is the time when people normally start liking. and, well, i think girls are pretty, but i also appreciate guys. and there making me doubt myself. i get 'asked out' by guys sometimes and when i say no, my friends are like .. i dunno. i think there getting ideas. im worried and scared and... i dunno.
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reader, dididoo  +, writes (22 October 2009):
don't listen to your friends...listen to yourself.
they can't tell you what you do and do not like.
if you like vanilla ice cream and they just say you like chocolate ice cream - well duh obviously you like vanilla ice cream.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): Sounds complicated. I agree with what "human male" said. Like Im gay but orientation doesnt matter. The ones that stress over being straight or "normal" are clearly not worth your time. Id say just go for it and see what happens!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): What does it matter if you are a lesbian or not? Do what feels right for you. Don't worry about what your friends think.
And if you are "doubting yourself" I'll say this. Human sexuality is extremely broad. Over here you have completely straight. And waaaaaaay over there you have completely gay. There is a HUGE gulf in between those two extremes and many of us fall somewhere in there. You might be into girls one minute and guys the next. Or want a relationship with a guy but fantasise about girls. It doesn't matter. All that matters is that whatever way you feel is ok. There are no rules.
There are no rules.
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