A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with this guy for about 9 months. You could call our relationship unoffically exclusive because, even though he loved me and wanted to be with me, I wasn't ready for the commitment (for various reasons which I've worked through). He ended things with me a few months ago and although I had an idea as to why, I was never entirely sure. Until yesterday, I thought it was because he didn't love me anymore.We hadn't really been in contact, but a few days ago he phoned me to hang out. He spoke to my sister and told her he still loves me but his head is in a mess and he needs to get his life together. I had no idea he still loved me. It's given me hope.I've grown to love him and I want to be with him. If I give him his space and time to do what he needs to do, is it possible he'll come back to me one day when he's ready? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Yes I think its posible that he will ask you back out. Its good to give him space and let him work threw this. But you dont want to give him to much space were he forgets that spark you guys have. I think that you should remind him once in awhile that you still care about him and are there for him. Then when hes ready he could take you back becuase true love can work threw any thing.
|
