A
male
age
36-40,
*otent
writes:I’ve been in a long distance relationship with “A” 3.5 years now. We see each other almost every weekend. Lately we’ve grown almost apart. We don’t call, no texts, nothing. We share friends and family together and I’m afraid if we split I will lose that family and friends.In the mean time I met “B”, also long distance. We got together twice and it was great but we chat mostly through internet. I see her as a potential girlfriend. She knows about “A” and wants me to leave her. I told her about my problem if I leave “A” (family and friends). The biggest problem I have is that “B” got an “ex” as a best friend. She told him about me and he didn’t like it very much. He said he wanted her back but she said she let him understand that she don’t want anyone but me. She said he is like a big brother to her. Should I try and patch up the relationship with “A” which I doubt will ever be the same? Should I take a chance with “B” ? What about “B” ex?
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reader, L*  +, writes (6 November 2009):
you're unsure about what to do..so just stay single for now and pick neither.
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