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writes:I'm not normally into ons, but I was upset that night, so I was actually looking for someone for a cuddle and kiss, but I ended up at his somehow.We didn't even ask each other's name on the night, it seems like we both were clear it would be just one night...but we got to talk a lot in the morning, I felt somehow connected, I thought he did too, because he took me to a romantic restaurant for lunch...he treated me like perfect gentleman, things like telling me I can wear his cloth as mine has smell of smoke from the night before...or brought his jacket for me just in case it's cold outside...feels like a caring bf to me.We had great chat over lunch, got to know each other better, and he asked for my number, said he would call and meet up again at the weekend (he's away for work during the week), he even told me to keep his jacket because it's cold, so I did, and we kissed goodbye...I really thought he'd call not just because he said so, because the way he treated me, and I felt the connection as well. but it's been 5 days, Maybe I was wrong about the connection? maybe he's just being polite? or maybe ons can only be ons? I've never made the first move before, but should I call him? please help....Many thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): Thanks so much for your reply guys.I guess I shouldn't have keep my hope high base on ons,hence there won't be disappointment no matter what the outcome is.Yeah, I think I will be patient and see if he calls, and make the next meeting to be a date rather than another ons.Something I forgot to mention, he asked me to email him couple of photos of the city to use, because I'm a photographer, and I did, but he didn't even bother to reply, it's not very nice, isn't it? Yeah, when I started to think a bit more, maybe he's just a smooth player, maybe he was just being polite for treating me nice.
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (6 November 2009):
 I absolutely agree withe the previous poster about the fact that one nighters rarely lead to anything more. However, he did give you his jacket and 5 days isn't all that long - he may well, as the male poster said, be a smooth player. Try to control your feelings for this guy, keep an open mind about the outcome. If he's interested I'd expect you'll get a call within the next few days and I'd expect he'll use the "i left my jacket at your place" excuse to have to meet up with you again. If he does call, and does want to meet up with you, perhaps take a step back and meet up without a further one nighter and see where it takes you from there. Good luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 November 2009):
Wait for him to contact you. He may have been a very smooth player. He said he would call, so if he really cares, he will. Be patient and wait for him. Meanwhile, ask yourself if you want to continue with ons, because it sounds like you need a bit more than just sex. If so, start looking to date instead. Very rarely do one night stands become anything else.
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reader, L-O-V-E xxx +, writes (6 November 2009):
well, im sure he will call s he did leave his jacket with you. i think ou should make the ist move but its best to txt him and ask if he wants to do something one night...then make out your really busy but make sure you have one free day...
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