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writes:Ok here it goes. I am a 29 year old woman and I am in love with a man 34 years my senior. I have known him for 15 years and throughout our entire friendship I have gone through a few different relationships and was even married for a short time. Here is my question. I am 29 and he is 64. Is it ever going to be possible for us to have as active of a sex life as I want? He says he is a very sexual person and has proved it time and time again. What doesn't happen very often though is actual intercourse. He has the magic pill perscription and he has used it on occasion but there are times like in the middle of the day or just out of the blue I would love to just have sex without having to prep for it. Is that something that is unreasonable to expect? He is always game to try out anything I would like to as far as improving that aspect of our relationship. Everything else is wonderful. But even he is getting frustrated at times and that doesn't help. Any suggestions? Anyone in the same type of situation? All help would be appreciated. Thank you all in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Women have menopause and men have been blessed with erectile dysfunction!!!!!!!!!!!The 64 years old may be like a used car salesman, making all kinds of promises but in the end the proof is in the pudding. For me , i am a healthy 38 year old and when i want it hubby better produce the goods (no pressure, lol) . on a more serious side, you will be very very very frustrated sexually and in the end you will become bitter and you will resent him, you will also belittle him and that will only hurt you both. I think you will resort to cheating on him and that is not fair to him. I think the old 64 year old needs someone more mature and understanding, someone nearer his age. find a single guy who has the stamina to produce the goods. You need a stud to ride like the wind!!!!!!!!!! Either way you both are not sexually compatible and it is only matter of time before you stray.
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reader, Gurner69  +, writes (7 November 2009):
Yes you can but more than likely you should make the most of it cus it wont last too long.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 November 2009):
I'm afraid for many men, by the time they reach that age, the sprit is willing, but the flesh is weak. He will find it very hard to keep up with you, and will find it even harder to make it all just happen without preparation. It's just age and it happens. If you love him, then be patient with him and allow it to happen as it is. The more he gets frustrated, the more he will struggle, so he needs to know you love him and care for him and will be patient. Take your time and just allow it to happen. Most men also respond to better diets, so make sure he's not eating rubbish, and getting enough sleep and exercising enough and this could help. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): i know that love itself has no qualifiers... but sex does. I think there are probably men that are 64 that still have their full capabilities. However my story is of a very close family member who married a man that was 69. He assured her that he was well able to take the land. And for the first few months indeed he was. It has now been 8 years and the last 6 have been sexless. He gropes and tries but no bonanza. Yes it's just one story but it is something to consider. all the best to you, mal
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