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writes:last week me and my friend of 2 years got closer. as we were about to have sex he stopped saying that something didn't feel right. he also said he's still thinking of his ex (whom he was in a relationship with for a couple of weeks some months ago)When we first met 2 yrs ago, he was the one chasing me and wanting to get together but now that I've got closer to him he seems to be avoiding me. Shall I try to talk to him or just leave him to contact me again? I'm still unsure of whether he's the right one for me and I do miss his company. I also feel a bit hurt and rejected as he seemed to enjoy turning me on (the last time we met) but then stopped all of a sudden..I wondered if he didn't find me sexually appealing or something but he assured me it wasn't that. As a woman, I couldn't help feeling that something must be wrong with me as usually men don't deny sex..especially with a woman whom they claim they find attractive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your reply. he texted me today and told me we should meet up again soon.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 November 2009):
There was nothing wrong with you. It was just that he was your best friend, and suddenly thought he was making a mistake. Don't take it personally, it really wasn't your fault. It was his. He wasn't even really over his first girlfriend either. I'm sure you're hurt and feeling rejected, but it would be a shame to throw away a good friendship. I would try talking to him if you can. Maybe just ask him for a coffee or something and tell him you're worried that your friendship is in jeopardy. Hopefully he'll at least listen to that. If not, you may have to wait until he contacts you.
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