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writes:Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is rather a mood killer. How can I get past this? He is a wonderful husband and I want to be able to please him in this way. (I do it, but not very often) Also, he wants to cum in my mouth, and the very thought makes my stomach churn! Help!! P.S. He has never tried to force me or withheld anything as "punishment", he is very considerate of me and I just want to please him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much! I have never been with any one besides my husband, so most of the things that you said I didn't know. Some of it has already been helpful :-) and I actually enjoyed it. I still haven't let him cum in my mouth but maybe I will get there. I will use the rest of the advice and keep trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): Good advice about the nutritional aspect there DoubleM.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 November 2009):
 The pleasure derived from a great blow job by a wife (or girlfriend) is the ultimate for a man, but I think the deal should first include oral satisfaction for her. In my experience, if a woman has been thoroughly pleased via oral and penile sex (especially multiple times), then she can easily take his load.
As a man, I have never given a blow job, but as recipient, have taught quite a few women over some 45 years.
The taste of male ejaculate may be fairly salty or bitter, but as "Harry Castle" suggested, you can take it deep at climax and it may mostly bypass the taste buds. Some women love the flavor, some just tolerate it, but a better thought is for the man to drink pineapple or other fruit juice a day or two prior to the pleasure. Eating plenty of fruits in general may help, as may sugar and candy.
Some foods and drink apparently increase bitterness, such as asparagus, lots of beef, too much beer or alcohol and some medications. Lots of vitamins may somewhat taint the flavor but is good for the recipient.
A man's ejaculate is quite healthy for a woman providing he is healthy, and based on personal experience providing girlfriends and wives, can improve her complexion and hair. Some medical authorities have claimed it may also help prevent breast cancer.
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reader, Gurner69  +, writes (7 November 2009):
Maybe watch a few pornos with him and get him into them. This way the next time you give him head you can get away with pulling out and letting him perform a "cum shot" all over your face and/or tits. This way he wont feel cheated and will probably think of you as some sort of porn diva.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): Yes i dont know why i didnt think to mention flavored lubes etc. Even Wal-Mart carries a few of them..and I have kept an altoid or strong mint in my mouth.
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (6 November 2009):
 If you can manage it without gagging, take him as far back down your throat as possible; that way, when he shoots it will go right past your taste buds and down your throat without your noticing.Ever eaten oysters?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): I didn't like beer or coffee the first few times, but I liked what they did for me. Now I can't imagine not having them. It's great that you want to make him happy. You will get use to the taste. Keep some mouthwash by the sink...rinse and spit. He'll love you forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): well it is the million dollar question isn't it? Here's what works for me *blushing*...I sometimes let him come in my mouth..and i feel the same way you do but i love my guy and he loves...to come in my mouth. However more often i "blow" until he is almost ready to cum and then i finish by hand. I will swallow the precum no problem, but the cum itself...not often.
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