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writes:Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out to get i'm just wondering. I have not really had a real relationship in a while. Im happy about all feed back. Thanks everyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, NymphoSexLover +, writes (7 November 2009):
It really depends on the girl your with and how serious your relationship is. The first guy I was with waited a month to kiss me, the next guy waited all of a few seconds. If you two were really close before you got together, she may not wait that long. On the sex aspect, you may want to wait a little while to bring up when you want to because it may just scare the girl away. I usually wait about 2 months to bring it up unless you were really close friends before the relationship started. I had a relationship with someone I had an online relationship with and we went right into it because we talked about it so much and knew we were both ready and what each other liked.
The point is, it all depends on the girl and your relationship. This isn't something other people can help with, but I hope I helped clear things up.
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (7 November 2009):
Nic390 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks both of you. You both are a big help.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (6 November 2009):
 don't push it, you should wait till it feels right, if you push it, it won't be as good. Do it in private and start of with a peck on the cheek, a peck on the lips and work your way up to frenching, If she's inexperienced, then she might be a bit nervous. I know it can be frustrating waiting for ages, but take it step by step. like, give her the kiss on the cheek at the end of a date maybe, and wait till your next date before going further.As for sex, you should really wait, it's easy to say that your ready for it, but it's a whole different kettle of fish when it comes to the crunch and you realize how big of a deal it is.When you've started kissing for a while, like, properly making out, then move slowly, like put your hands under her top, then wait another little while before moving on to fingering/handjobsand only then should you start considering sex.good luckxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): There is no set time for any of this. It depends very much on the person. Try to just go with the flow. Maybe you could try and hold their hand, and watch their body language to see the response, or move a bit closer and see if that is welcome. Then take it from there.
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