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writes:Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago and my feelings for him never ended and I thought he just had no feelings for me at all! You see the reason why he ended it is because we didn't see each other much and so in those 5 months of us being apart we would still see each other at partys etc as we have mutual friends and I sometimes went to partys which he was throwing at his place but nothing ever happened we just remained friends and we both had different partners in our 5 months of seperation.Anyway the other night me and him started speaking online just out of the blue as we have not seen or spoken to each other for just over a month and he asked me to go up to see him this weekend and I agreed.He was also saying that he compares every other girl to me and that he still thinks about me and still likes me etc. And I told him that I still think about him too and that I just wanted to get over him.There is a possibility we may get back together this weekend but im really scared about it and im having doubts.Do you think it is a good idea?
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reader, beautiful_hollow +, writes (6 November 2009):
I think you maybe need to ask yourself a few questions before you go. When you split 5 months ago - were the reasons merely because you didnt see him much? Is this something that is likely to happpen again? Because if it is - getting back with your ex might just be a repeat of last time - and not moving forward.Also, do you want to get back with him? what are the doubts that you are having? It sounds lie a really complex situation hun. I think sometimes things can be better the second time round - as long as it is really what you want and you have both learnt and grown from last time....Good luck with whatever you choose to do
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