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female
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30-35,
*axgirl93
writes:I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A".Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008.me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009.I thought that I was in love with A and desperately tried getting back with him even though he had cheated on me while we were together. We were very back and forth after the break up for so long it killed me.Only two weeks ago did i come to the realization that he really doesnt love me and that i dont need to be with him...The thing is, two weeks ago D called me a bit wasted. He told me that he still loved me and that he had never stopped. I was overjoyed and thrilled because I knew that I still had feelings for him as well.The problem though is that D has a girlfriend that he has been with since August 2009. That night he told me that I make him forget about his girlfriend and that he wanted to see me very badly. He also said that he wishes he could tell his girlfriend that he loved her, but he cant because he doesnt.I was just filled with every emotion possible thinking that a year later, this boy is telling me that he loves me.The next day he called me and told me that his girlfriend had told him that she loves him and he said he loved her too. Since then we haven't really talked about what went on that night, but i know that i love this boy. I feel like he is going out with this girl because he doesn't want to hurt her as she is a freshman and he is a senior.I want to be with him and i think that he may want to be with me too. What should i do?
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reader, Friendly Bear  +, writes (7 November 2009):
You need to get out. Go to some parties. Ask both A and D out on some more dates. That way you'll get a better feeling about if they're available and you'll be able to clarify your feelings. Keep an eye out, there may be an E or an F around the corner.....
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