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I have no friends!

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Question - (6 November 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Belgium age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm a 30 year old girl, married for one year now. I have a strange problem of not having any good friends. When I was in school I used to have few very good friends with whom I used to hang out often. Later in Uni I never had any close friends whom I was completely close to, except my bf, now husband. Its not that I don't talk to people or something. I'm a friendly and a nice person who is always polite to everyone around me. People see me as a very sweet natured person. However, I don't have a single friend who is good enough to hang out! I have no one to invite if there is a party at home, no one to go shopping with, no one with whom I can share my thought (I'm talking of female friends). Sometimes I feel I'm such a lonely person. My husband is the one who ponited out that I don't have a single good friend. He says I cut them off too soon and does not do enough to develop it in to a friendship. It seems that I send out negative signals to People, making them associate me only on a formal level. Are there any suggestions to overcome this?

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