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I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?

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Question - (6 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *overnotafighter writes:

I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..?

We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just like the idea of liking him if that makes sense like I like thinking about if we were together and how great it would be.

Thats my problem I dont know if its the idea of wanting to be with him or that I actually want to be with him..??

Im really confused how do I get to understand my feeling towards 'D' and figure out whether I actually want to be with him or is it just the idea of being with him that I like..??

LNAF..X

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A female reader, pancakes rule Ireland +, writes (7 November 2009):

pancakes rule agony aunt2nd option: dump him and find someone you can always talk to about whatever.

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A female reader, pancakes rule Ireland +, writes (7 November 2009):

pancakes rule agony auntstay friends with him and don't do anything, like if you meet eachother at a party or something as many friends do, it might give you a better idea of what you want, but it sounds like your too unsure, and as long as your unsure, it's safer just to stay friends

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