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writes:I feel this guy likes me, and I am scared to go talk to him again. He stares at me a lot and tries to have eye contact. He'll go out of his way to walk by me or tries to get my attention when I don't see him. I'm not sure if i'm reading the wrong signs, but I do feel something when he stares into my eyes (it feels like his eyes are talking). I think I need some hard evidence before I could be confident talking to him again. One of the days I was at my college printing something in the computer lab and i was looking down at my papers, I looked up and saw him sitting there and he was leaning his body over to the side, I guess he's trying to make me notice him, then we had eye contact and he kept looking up at me and back down to his table repeatedly and was leaning forward giving me eye contact again. His friends usually see me in the comp lab in the evening on some days, and I was surprised to see him there that night when he kept looking up at me and down...Ok so I really like this guy, but I'm scared I'm predicting it wrong, I don't know what I should do? Sometimes it seems like he is waiting for me to approach him but I'm not sure and scared he'll reject me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): Frankly it sounds kinda creepy the way he's staring at you. But if you like him just talk to him. How are you going to get "evidence" that he likes you. Just say hello and see what happens.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (6 November 2009):
 You must be flattered, so much attention!! Sounds like this guy has a major crush on you but is too shy to do anything about it.
Why dont you casually ask him for coffee and see his reaction. Maybe he is afraid of making the first move because he has been rejected before by other women??
Make it a nice casual affair, even if you ask one or two other people for coffee too, especially if you dont want to be alone with him or are worried about what you will talk about...
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reader, clownzyall +, writes (6 November 2009):
 A simple smile and a hello go a long way! It never killed anyone to spark a conversation. Just be friendly, and I'm sure he'll make his interests known eventually. Besides, it also gives you a way to get to know him. I know it might be scary, but get passed those jitters kiddo! Next time you see him, compliment his shirt. Asked him where he got it, and just ramble off from there. I betcha your personality will shine as long as you relax around him. Its not like he's freakin' Fabio, he's a cute guy at the computer lab. And, heck, its not like he'll be the last one to wander in there and catch your eye.
'Sides, he's probably worrying about the same thing girl :), guys are shy too.
Good Luck! (x
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