A
female
age
30-35,
*axgirl93
writes:I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A and desperately tried getting back with him even though he had cheated on me while we were together. We were very back and forth after the break up for so long it killed me.Only two weeks ago did i come to the realization that he really doesnt love me and that i dont need to be with him...The thing is, two weeks ago D called me a bit wasted. He told me that he still loved me and that he had never stopped. I was overjoyed and thrilled because I knew that I still had feelings for him as well. The problem though is that D has a girlfriend that he has been with since August 2009. That night he told me that I make him forget about his girlfriend and that he wanted to see me very badly. He also said that he wishes he could tell his girlfriend that he loved her, but he cant because he doesnt. I was just filled with every emotion possible thinking that a year later, this boy is telling me that he loves me. The next day he called me and told me that his girlfriend had told him that she loves him and he said he loved her too. Since then we haven't really talked about what went on that night, but i know that i love this boy. I feel like he is going out with this girl because he doesn't want to hurt her as she is a freshman and he is a senior. I want to be with him and i think that he may want to be with me too. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Dont believe him guys would tell you waht you want to hear and its not true i past trough the same situation after they realize what they lost they want to come back but you shouldnt faul for it its not worth it ex are exs for a reason dont go back he wants his cake and eat it too that means that he wants to have you with no strings attach and since you knew he had a girl that going to faul all on you dont let him stay and ex their is someone out their better and more deserving than him some one could treat you better and you could be able to traust and be stress free
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