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reader, LethalInjection-x  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 I never said masturbating was a bad thing for a 14 year old. I meant that reaching orgasm is a pretty hefty target to start with, which if you don't reach it, can leave you feeling disappointed amongst other things. No part of my response was at all derogatory.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): Maybe you need a change of scenery, get out of the bathroom so someone else in your family can use it...what is wrong with your own bedroom, with a lock on the door.
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reader, THE ALTERNATIVE ROCKER  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Well I'm fifteen and I might not be much of a help but you should enjoy what you do and maybe you don't have the right object or thing that can really bring into an orgasm.
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reader, sammy3  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 when im masterbating i can only get a clitoral oragasm even with a dildo or vibrator and when i 1st stared masterbating at age like 12 or 13 it took me a long while to origasm like a year but i still enjoyed it :) but try new things try playing with ur clit with ur thumb then middle and index finger in there hope i helped a little
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): umm for the one person that said no offence
umm offence taken.
what 14 year old doesnt masterbate?
i didnt ask yu how yu felt about it or if other women didnt "touch" them selves i asked how to make it feel bttr.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): don't worry. i have the same problem... sometimes you just have to try something new. ;)
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (6 November 2009):
You can lash out at me for being a man but achieving orgasm is every persons right. You just need to keep exploring yourself. Some girls can only orgasm though clitoral stimulation others can orgasm through thier G spot. Find your niche and keep doing what feels good to you. You will achieve orgasm eventually
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (6 November 2009):
No offence, but being a healthy 14 year old girl, shouldn't you just be concerned with exploring and appreciating you're own body for what it is, rather than have a goal like that?
There's a lot of women that never manage it, even with all their experience behind them.
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