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writes: i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex with this guy. she had no ligit reason to break it off for good or not take me back. its not like i cheated on her or was lying to her. i simply just got angry and broke up with her but was quick to realize my mistake. but wait......heres the KICKER. during this whole time, we were texting on and off and we even met up at walmart and i told her how much i loved her and wanted her back, yet she showed no feeling back for me. it gets better...... after ONE FULL MONTH of being broken up, she texts me and wants to get back together and me being the dumbass i was took her back not knowing what she had done with her ex. theres two arguments to this 1)I was the one that broke up with HER, therefore what she did when we were broken up is not significant. i should just drop it, forgive her, and move on.or.....2)she had feelings for this guy all along and just wanted a sorry excuse to F*** him and bit at the first opportunity she got. the sad part is that after a month long fling with this dude, she wants to get back with me....i dont know if this should make me feel better that she chose ME. or worse for the fact that she didnt even bother evaluating or relationship before jumping into bed with this guy....im hurt...what should i do?
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reader, Friendly Bear  +, writes (7 November 2009):
If she's sorry. She loves you and she's honest. And you love her or think you might then do it. Otherwise move on.
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (6 November 2009):
Don't take her back homeboy, she was looking for a cheap excuse to screw the dude and that was a perfect opportunity for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): The latter feeling is right.
It sounds like she screwed him the moment she technically might have had an excuse. Theoretically maybe that's excusable but realistically its not something I would excuse. She knew damn well that you wanted her back but she wanted to sample the fruits of another for a while first.
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