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writes:my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. He wants to break up but I don't want to... I can't. I keep telling myself okay, if he wants to break up today I'll let him. But when it comes to the point where its time to say that, I dont. I end up asking him to stay with me cause I love him and want no one else. Just the thought of him being with another girl kills me and I'm scared. I don't know what to do. I keep telling him we can fix the problems but he just WANTS to break up. I know its bad to keep him with me when he doesn't want to and I sound real selfish but I honestly do love him. I want us to be happy together. I love him more than anything in this world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): It does hurt because you gave your love to him that much, but remember to keep some love to yourself to help you move on and start anew. If he's not happy with you, let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to find someone new but it hurts so much :/ i know that even if we do break up and i let him go i will never be the same. i just want him forever. haha it makes me sound desperate. but i honestly love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): You should let him go if that's the case. It just takes time to get over with him. Don't know how long, it depends on you. Who knows? you might find someone who can love you back and not get bored of you in reality someday.
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