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It just hasn't felt right since she decided she wanted a break

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Question - (27 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been with my gf for almost a year...we had been friends and hooked up several times in the past...we've known each other for about 5 yrs...a few days after we started dating she got a dui and lost her license...she moved in with me almost rite after that...I've been taking her to and from work since. We spend all our time together and have had some great times. I love her more than anything or anybody I have ever loved. She pretty much is the world to me. She's tells me she thinks I am amazing and will be loving me a long time...we have even talked about getting married someday. This is the longest and most serious relationship for both of us.

Everything was great and we were both totally in love until just the other nite. She just started ignoring me and when I finally got her to speak to me she said she wanted a break...for about a day I didn't see or communicate with her until she wanted to talk...when we did meet and talk she was crying and apologizing for hurting me because I was very hurt by what had been said...she is back living with me but things just aren't the same...I put so much time money effort emotion and sacrifice into our relationship...she wasn't just my gf she was my best friend...I stil love her and don't want to lose her...she said she loves and appreciates everything I do for her and she has never had anybody like that in her life and it makes her love me more. Things just haven't been the same since she came out the blue about needing a break and then coming crying back the next day. Am I trippin and just bein a dick because I feel like I lost the spark since that nite. Idk what to do...I don't wanna lose her but somethin just hasn't felt rite.what do I do...please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009):

a break means i dont want you anymore but just incase i cant find anyone better i want you as my backup

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