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writes:I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my misery and divorced him. I have gone for a much older man because I dont have any confidence in a man the same age. I want to be loved so much then I met this much older man. He treats me right. The age gap was not the issue at the beginning but 4 years on I feel he is too old for me. But he still enjoys having a much younger girlfriend. Sometimes I have a thought to end the relationship but I'm not sure is it right. Please help!
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reader, fun1031 +, writes (28 November 2009):
i am not sure how much older is your current friend. you did not indicate why all the sudden the age gap becomes an issue. Sure he enjoys a younger gf; he may be getting all hsi benefits from a young gf. Are you getting all your benefits from this older guy? Sounds not. You need to ask yourself honestly what are the shortcomings of this age age gap and if you can live with them. Is he less attractive now or are you embarassed with him in company of others? Does he have problem meeting your sexual needs and the give you the fullfillment you got 4 yrs ago?
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